Proving Your Relationship in a Family Petition
- Tyler Quesnel
- Oct 9
- 2 min read
Every family-based immigration case depends on one thing: proving the family relationship. Whether you are sponsoring a spouse, child, parent, or sibling, the U.S. government requires clear evidence that the relationship is real and legally valid.
Submitting strong evidence the first time is one of the best ways to avoid delays, Requests for Evidence (RFEs), or even denials.
Common Evidence for Family Petitions
The type of evidence you’ll need depends on the relationship:

Spouse: Marriage certificate, or if that's unavailable, other documentation and evidence showing the marriage is current and legal.
Child: Birth certificate listing the parent, adoption decrees, or legitimation documents.
Parent: Petitioner’s birth certificate showing the parent’s name.
Sibling: Birth certificates of both siblings showing at least one parent in common.
When Documents Are Missing or Abroad
Sometimes, official records may be missing, destroyed, or unavailable in the country where they were issued. In these cases, USCIS often accepts secondary evidence, such as:
Church or hospital records
School or census records
Affidavits from people with personal knowledge of the relationship
If no records are available at all, a written explanation from the local authority may also be required.

Marriage Cases: Extra Scrutiny
Marriage petitions are closely reviewed to ensure the marriage is bona fide (real) and not entered into just for immigration purposes. This means submitting as much evidence as possible of a shared life, including:
Joint bills, insurance, and financial accounts
Evidence of living together
Photos from the wedding, trips, and family gatherings
Messages, emails, or other communication showing the relationship over time
There is no set list of evidence to show a bona fide marriage, every relationship is different and therefore every case is different. An attorney can help identify the strongest evidence and present it in an organized, persuasive way.
Avoiding Delays and RFEs
A common reason for USCIS to issue an RFE (Request for Evidence) is insufficient or unclear proof of the relationship. These delays can add months to the process. By front-loading the case with solid documentation, you reduce the risk of complications.
How an Immigration Attorney Can Help
An experienced immigration attorney will:
Review your family relationship and identify the required evidence
Advise and inform your family about what to expect throughout the process
Help gather alternative documentation if official records are missing
Prepare affidavits and translations where needed
Organize evidence to present the strongest possible case
With the right guidance, families can avoid pitfalls and move their cases forward smoothly.
Take the Next Step
Family petitions succeed when relationships are clearly documented. Whether you’re sponsoring a spouse, child, parent, or sibling, having the right evidence makes all the difference.
Get trusted guidance from Quesnel Law—schedule your consultation now and move forward with confidence.



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